How to Use the Law of attraction for Love

The law of attraction is, simplified, the principle that like attracts like. Through setting your personal thoughts and energy to match that which you want, you should attract situations that match what you want. Getting what you desire may be simple or difficult--it depends on you and your ability to allow positive thoughts and energy more than you allow negative thoughts and energy. Much is tied to how easily you can put yourself into a particular frame of being that matches, without conflicting energies, the object or situation of your desire.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need Pen Paper

1)Write down, in detail, on a piece of paper what kind of love you desire (friendship, romantic relationships, or other--be specific). Writing things down helps you focus clearly on what you want--knowing exactly what you want is important. After writing down these details, set the paper aside. You can look at it at another time, if you choose, but that may not be necessary.

2)Love yourself. It is important to love yourself, if you want others to love you--like attracts like. According to sixthsense.org, the law of attraction will answer (reward) any emotion you are feeling with the same kind of emotion. Do what you can, whether it be therapy or some other helpful process, to get to a place where you love yourself more.

3)Practice meditation (daily) to learn how to still your mind and bring your attention back, away from negative thoughts, to thoughts and feeling of love. Simply sit for 15 to 20 minutes a day, breathing and focusing on feeling love. According to the Law of attraction, the more you feel love inside, the more you radiate the love that you want, the more love you will attract.

4)Visualize positive loving scenarios until they feel real. What you focus on, you attract; and, according to the website Understand and Use Law of attraction, imagining positive (or negative) is one way to attract these experiences. Visualization is most powerful when it is accompanied by emotion--in other words, dont just create an image without also imagining how you would feel about it when it occurs. Feeling love and joy when visualizing desired situations attracts those feelings back to you. Take a few minutes each day to do this, if possible.

5)Remain patient. This is one of the most difficult parts of implementing the law of attraction; it is natural to want things right now and not have to wait. However, impatience is a negative emotion and can actually slow your progress. When you start feeling impatient, try to distract yourself until the impatient feeling goes away. Focus instead on anything positive you can think of.

Tips & Warnings

Be flexible. Things may happen in ways that you may not expect. In other words, try not to get upset at the minor traffic delay in the morning, or similar events--it is those events that might be putting you in the right situation at the right time to find the love you wish.

The Law of attraction has many skeptics. The skeptics usually assert that it has not yet been proven, scientifically, that human beings have the ability to influence the world in the way Law of attraction proponents claim (by changing feelings and by visualizing desired outcomes, for example).